“Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows.” Michael Landon
The personal quality of Life is placed squarely on one’s decision to experience the thing that seemingly becomes elusive. I mean really. You have X number of days to check off your bucket list, ‘Right’!
The challenging question is, ‘do you even have a bucket?’ Why not?
“Unless you change direction, you are likely to end up where you are headed.” Chinese proverb.
You must know that a full life is without yearning or wishing and hoping that you should have done this or that…invariably mental gymnastics while on your deathbed.
Happiness is that thing that becomes elusive. Been my experience that a person must begin with personal happiness to properly involved others. Funny how attractive a happy person becomes!
The must do exercise is to write out your ‘bucket list’! Some rules or guidance should be to write out at least 100, be in present tense, and saved for future reference. You can write it out on a old school piece of paper or digitized it on your computer or smartphone. No matter just do it!
The other most important thing is to associate a picture that best fits the goal. That way you can better excite your subconscious, your own creative factory. For example, “I own an Island’ picture of island.
Simple right! You know better! It is the decisions that accompany the proper execution of each item, (or new experience), that is the difficult part. For example, those that are contrary to involving a unwilling partner. Like, when you write something like, ‘I dive 100 feet’ or I jumped at 15,000 feet’ or any other event He or She is totally against. Meaning you most likely will have to delete that item. Or just maybe accept the fact you settled to live your life through your partners dreams and desires. A compromise…is to write out a bucket list together… If that makes you happy. My guess it will not.
Most of us go through life not knowing what we want… but feeling darned sure we don’t have it!
Make quality decisions now do not wait and begin to live a full life!!
Know that you are one quality decision away from real happiness! Stop lying to yourself and sharing your excuses with others now!
Expect only the best from yourself. I know I am!
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